For 4.5 years I have fantasized about being pregnant; the glow, the laughter, the sheer joy, constant celebration, cute preggo outfits, the weekly bump pictures (yeah, I’ve only taken 4 belly pics in 3 months)… Holy moly, the past 12 weeks have been a slap of reality for me! Don’t get me wrong, I am so ecstatic and full of joy and so grateful for this answered prayer and I wouldn’t change it for anything. With that said, it has not been glamorous for me- pregnancy can be rough (for some)! Ha ha I am not complaining, I’m just being real. From weeks 5 til a few days ago I lost 16 pounds, spent my days on the couch, rarely went outside, used all my vacation and sick days, barely ate, had constant nausea- “morning” sickness is a LIE!, been waking up every hour and a half to eat some apples and almond butter, one day I love eggs the next I curse their existence! But ALL this will be worth it in the end!
…Especially when at our 7 week appointment we heard Little Bean’s heartbeat for the first time! Tears on tears! And we got to see the brain cavity and little body via ultrasound. Those moments make the others bearable. I was released from our reproductive endocrinologist at 7 weeks and was told to monitor a subchorionic hematoma and continue taking the progesterone suppositories and no working out for the first trimester (not like I had the energy or stomach for it anyway!). At 10 weeks we met my new OBGYN and heard Little Bean’s strong heartbeat again! I have been progressively feeling better- a little more energy, bigger appetite, more sleep – Praise the Lord!
And then there was yesterday… we had an ultrasound appointment and my heart was completely taken. Little Bean isn’t so “little” anymore- LB was moving all around and looked like perfection! Allan and I freaked out when we saw LB waving arms and kicking, “It’s moving!!” we both yelled. It was so crazy, we laughed and I cried… Every time I see Little Bean, I become more in awe of our Creator. This little life is moving and growing inside me and I don’t even feel the movement yet (definitely feel the symptoms though! lol). Oh AND we will know the gender in less than two weeks thanks to blood work so..stay tuned! And let me know your guess…pink or blue?!
Here’s Little Bean’s growth so far:
Thank you for your continued support and prayers. You all are amazing; the texts, calls, gifts, letters, encouragements have been so needed. We love you!
Fabulous update!! I was thinking about you last night and wondering how you’re doing. I’m so excited for you! And look how much your little has grown!! I can’t wait to see what the gender is…my guess is girl. No idea why, just a feeling I have. I hope you start feeling better very soon!
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Thank you!! Ok I’ll tally you under girl! 😁
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I am with ya on the staying in and feeling that crappy feeling all day long! Isn’t the 12 week ultrasound the coolest thing ever?! So happy to hear baby is growing and hope you feel better more and more each day!
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Thank you!! Yes, so cool!! Little Bean finally looks like a baby instead of a bean! 😂😍 Aw, I hope you feel better too!
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Such great news and some great pics!
I’m up to four years trying, I hope this doesn’t sound funny, but it is kind of nice to hear a positive outcome for someone else who has tried for so long.
I hope your nausea moves on swiftly and the rest of the pregnancy goes easy on you 🙂
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Thanks love! No, that doesn’t sound funny at all! Seeing others triumphs gave me hope as well- especially after our three failed rounds of IUIs last spring. We stopped all treatments and I wasn’t tracking ovulation. We had just come to the point of accepting if it was going to be just us for the rest of our lives- we would still be happy. And then surprise! (People kept telling us to not worry about it- “it would happen when we stopped stressing” and I HATED that so a part of me was like “seriously?!” When it happened that way!) but I know it’s all in God’s timing. We had our plan but He had others-His are always better anyway! So seeing others get pregnant after 7 or 8 years trying definitely kept me encouraged at the low points. My prayers are with you-your journey isn’t over! Xoxo Julianna
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Such a wonderful surprise. Yes it drives me nuts when others tell me to “relax” about it 🙂
Thank you so much. 🙂
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😂 I hear you! It still frustrates me! 😉
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I have a really random way of dealing with it now, I start singing the song “Relax” whenever anyone says it to me. They seem to find that annoying and have said it to me less since hahaha.
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That’s awesome!!! 😂😂 I love it!
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So happy to see that healthy little bean at your 12 week ultrasound- I have been praying for you and your little one! Hope you get to feeling better as you enter the second trimester. 🙂
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Thanks love!! I SO appreciate the prayers! And yes, I have better getting better daily- thank you Jesus! How are you doing?!
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Doing well….holding onto hope that someday I will be in your shoes! BTW, I think you are having a boy. 🙂
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Your journey does not end here. God placed that desire in your heart and He hasn’t forgotten you. I highly recommend “Supernatural Childbirth” it’s an older book but packed with encouragement! I’ll put you down for team blue! 😉
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I hope that your nausea passes soon, that doesn’t sound pleasant at all. While I’m not pregnant yet, I can imagine the let down that pregnancy can be. When we have dreamed about it for so long and we crave to be pregnant we only think about the positive things about pregnancy and forget the nasty little things like morning sickness. 🙂 I hope that once your second trimester hits you are able to enjoy this time a little more! xo
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Thank you so much!! It’s getting better day by day-thank the Lord! Yeah, it’s definitely a dose of reality and some people have it so easy- I wish that for you! 😉 Xoxo Julianna
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